In a much more elegant way, he eventually sat down and said "look... You like ****ing other men, I like ****ing other woman... Why don't we just do it together".
It's been a story book ending ever since...
Gekko makes an interesting point, I can't imagine being comfortable with my significant other being friends with someone who lives that life.
I realize I'm putting this here for you to read... but please, don't talk about it.
Now, I actually think if they are to be married, it may as well be to each other. No one else would deal with them.
I had told that story before... But since then, we honestly don't hang out with them any more. They moved to chicago where there's a big swingers crowd apparently and we live in Florida. Even when they are in town, it's too see one of their multiple FB swinger friends and we don't hear from them. We are not a part of that relatively closed door society, so they kind of moved on... Now the only time we talk is when exchanging pleasantries like: "congrats on having a baby".
Congrats on the baby... Can I be the first to stick my dick in you?
Haha JK joe