Random Thoughts Thread (which might include discussion)

**det2orl** · 02-22-2012, 07:21 AM

Originally Posted by JDC48160

She said, "This is taking too much attention away from my kids, and I can't have that. It just needs to be me and them for a while."

Hoping that means the door isn't completely closed from getting back together.

Been together since July 20th of 2010.(first date was that day. Remember it cuz my little sister got married that week.)

Did something change recently? A year and half is a long time to figure out that its taking time away from the kids.

I don't at all subscribe to the theory that you have to be an ass-hole at times or act as if you don't care. If she cannot appreciate a guy who doesn't have an issue with expressing how he feels about her that's a her problem not a you problem and you don't need to be with her anyway. **** isn't a game and it shouldn't have to be treated as such. If you feel it, show it. I'm all about being genuine and from your explanation its sounds as if that is what you were. Doesn't sound like smothering at all IMO.

Over the course of a long term relationship the flame will naturally lower to a steady simmer as real life, time and comfort set in. There is a no need to try throw water on it in its early stages IMO.

**tommyz** · 02-22-2012, 07:52 AM

I agree with both King and det....Funny thing is, after I read det response, the first thing I thought of was this

**sseelhoff** · 02-22-2012, 08:36 AM

Originally Posted by tommyz

I agree with both King and det....Funny thing is, after I read det response, the first thing I thought of was this

I was thinking something more along these lines:

**tommyz** · 02-22-2012, 08:45 AM

Originally Posted by sseelhoff

I was thinking something more along these lines:

Was more comparing det to Barry..not JDC

**sseelhoff** · 02-22-2012, 08:48 AM

Originally Posted by tommyz

Was more comparing det to Barry..not JDC

Gotcha.

**joeking1978** · 02-22-2012, 09:24 AM

JDC?

**yourmom_is_hot** · 02-22-2012, 10:41 AM

unfortunately, when you date someone with kids, this can happen. sucks that it happens, but the person is a parent first and their first responsibility is to their kids.

**joeking1978** · 02-22-2012, 11:14 AM

I just heard an advertisement for the upcoming Chris Webber show on The Foxhole on Sirius... Interesting

(could find the random sports thought thread on crapatalk)

**The Black Hand** · 02-22-2012, 12:15 PM

Our ****in retard admin is freaking out because every day when she comes back from lunch there is a small piece of pink paper on her desk. Today it’s in the shape of a triangle. She’s going around asking everybody if they did it. Somebody is ****ing with her but I don’t know who it is.

**det2orl** · 02-22-2012, 12:17 PM

Originally Posted by The Black Hand

Our ****in retard admin is freaking out because every day when she comes back from lunch there is a small piece of pink paper on her desk. Today it’s in the shape of a triangle. She’s going around asking everybody if they did it. Somebody is ****ing with her but I don’t know who it is.

**The Black Hand** · 02-22-2012, 12:39 PM

Originally Posted by Willie Mays Hayes

You have to maintain a certain degree of *******; even when they're your wife. Nothing major, but a slight bit of unpredictability is what women like.

Originally Posted by Willie Mays Hayes

Did she do everything for you that a woman should do for her man?

My wife doesn't... you have to remember that when you tell them figure out their own **** every now and then.

Originally Posted by Willie Mays Hayes

I'll piggyback on this a little.

My friend's wife does everything that a typical wife "should" do short of wiping his ass. On the surface it sounds good, but honestly, I think I would shoot her if she was my wife. I couldn't handle it.

This sounds like my neighbor's wife. The other day I saw her outside at 6 AM starting his car. She was wearing a tank top.