I don't at all subscribe to the theory that you have to be an ass-hole at times or act as if you don't care. If she cannot appreciate a guy who doesn't have an issue with expressing how he feels about her that's a her problem not a you problem and you don't need to be with her anyway. **** isn't a game and it shouldn't have to be treated as such. If you feel it, show it. I'm all about being genuine and from your explanation its sounds as if that is what you were. Doesn't sound like smothering at all IMO.
Over the course of a long term relationship the flame will naturally lower to a steady simmer as real life, time and comfort set in. There is a no need to try throw water on it in its early stages IMO.
Last edited by det2orl; 02-22-2012 at 08:56 AM.
I agree with both King and det....Funny thing is, after I read det response, the first thing I thought of was this
"People who drink light "beer" don't like the taste of beer; they just like to pee a lot."
unfortunately, when you date someone with kids, this can happen. sucks that it happens, but the person is a parent first and their first responsibility is to their kids.
I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day.
I just heard an advertisement for the upcoming Chris Webber show on The Foxhole on Sirius... Interesting
(could find the random sports thought thread on crapatalk)
Our ****in retard admin is freaking out because every day when she comes back from lunch there is a small piece of pink paper on her desk. Today it’s in the shape of a triangle. She’s going around asking everybody if they did it. Somebody is ****ing with her but I don’t know who it is.