Random Thoughts Thread (which might include discussion)

[JDC48160]

downplayed it a bit more in the 2nd post. I'm guessing you rush to her every beck and call...

The fact is, doing everything for a woman is worse than doing nothing. Don't worry, you'll learn eventually. Bend over backwards for a woman, and they'll bend over frontwards for someone with a bit more "edge".

I will put it in an analogy you can relate too... if you went hunting and the deer walked up to you, grabbed your knife and slit its own throat... would it be as fun still? If Dale Jr. layed off the gas and let Jimmy Johnson win every time, would you enjoy NASCAR as much?

The fact is simple... everyone wants a chase. To earn their own. To have to work for something. I understand that its harder for you to find pu$$y than it is for me to find Hopslam in Florida, but you have to own it. Act like you don't need it and can get it whenever you want. Taking the one piece of ass you get and smothering it by diving 100% into the relationship is only going to push someone away.

In the end, I don't know why I feel the need to advise you constantly when I know you won't listen... but take it for what its worth. I'm sure most here will cosign.

I don't go running at her beckon call. Just would do stuff if she needed it. I'd take care of her Jeep for her, pay for stuff when we'd go out and always buy her nice stuff for special occasions, and sometimes surprise her with something for no reason. Just trying to do the things a man should do for a woman.

I've had girlfriends before. Never felt the way I feel about this one ever before. This was special.

[Willie Mays Hayes]

You have to maintain a certain degree of *******; even when they're your wife. Nothing major, but a slight bit of unpredictability is what women like.

[JDC48160]

You have to maintain a certain degree of *******; even when they're your wife. Nothing major, but a slight bit of unpredictability is what women like.

I get that. But, the things I did for her, were things any man should do for their woman. At least that's how I see it.

[The Great Gazoo]

I get that. But, the things I did for her, were things any man should do for their woman. At least that's how I see it.

been there done that in my past...it may not seem like you did anything wrong but all that could be perceived as too much

[JDC48160]

been there done that in my past...it may not seem like you did anything wrong but all that could be perceived as too much

Right.

I guess being a gentleman, and doing things the old school way and taking care of your woman isn't right anymore. I just don't ****ing understand.

I can't wait til I'm off work tomorrow. I'm gonna go get stupid drunk after work. Would have done it tonight, but I just wanted to get home and lock myself in this room and be alone with my thoughts.

[Willie Mays Hayes]

I get that. But, the things I did for her, were things any man should do for their woman. At least that's how I see it.

Did she do everything for you that a woman should do for her man?

My wife doesn't... you have to remember that when you tell them figure out their own **** every now and then.

[The Great Gazoo]

Right.

I guess being a gentleman, and doing things the old school way and taking care of your woman isn't right anymore. I just don't ****ing understand.

I can't wait til I'm off work tomorrow. I'm gonna go get stupid drunk after work. Would have done it tonight, but I just wanted to get home and lock myself in this room and be alone with my thoughts.

I learned that being too nice works for a little but then it has to change... you'll figure it out...

[Willie Mays Hayes]

Did she do everything for you that a woman should do for her man?

My wife doesn't... you have to remember that when you tell them figure out their own **** every now and then.

I'll piggyback on this a little.

My friend's wife does everything that a typical wife "should" do short of wiping his ass. On the surface it sounds good, but honestly, I think I would shoot her if she was my wife. I couldn't handle it.

[joeking1978]

Did she do everything for you that a woman should do for her man?

My wife doesn't... you have to remember that when you tell them figure out their own **** every now and then.

bingo bango... apparently phillyfan is the only one who should be doing everything for his wife on this forum.

[mtdman]

Lent starts tomorrow, Ash Wednesday. I am going to give up facebook for lent. And I'm going to try to stay off fast food. Should be quite a challenge on both fronts.

[the King]

I can't wait til I'm off work tomorrow. I'm gonna go get stupid drunk after work. Would have done it tonight, but I just wanted to get home and lock myself in this room and be alone with my thoughts.

Don't take your phone with you when you go drinking. Or if you are going to be at home, lock the phone away. Don't have it around. Too much temptation after too many drinks to make that call that will only end up in disaster.